Is natural menopause worth the effort of trying to figure it all out for yourself?
- Are you one of the 25% of women, in perimenopause, who are finding it massively challenging to function as normal – and really don’t want to use HRT?
- And are you also one of an increasing number of women, disappointed and frustrated by the lack of support and understanding around this powerful change?
- If you’re also the woman who has invested in herself: taken care of her health and maybe taken some personal growth or spiritual trainings, you may well be wondering “Why me?” (That is the polite version!).
There’s a jumble of information out there isn’t there? Do you need Black cohosh or HRT? Should you opt for eating tons of phtyoestrogens and using bio identical hormones, red clover, yam cream – or just run screaming to the hills? No doubt, most of these options will help – I have found them to be useful too. But something in you calls you to go deeper, deeper than the physical level – and explore why it is you just don’t feel like you used to anymore? Is it really ‘just’ menopause or is something under the surface trying to emerge?
25% of menopausal women (according to the U.K.s National Institute for Clinical Excellence) are likely to suffer sleep disturbances, hot sweats, aches pains and weight gain. Not to mention depression and anxiety attacks. Sometimes these problems lead to issues around work, and financial stability. Often, they impact relationships and life choices.
Few women will admit to the vivid dreams, extreme thoughts and inner turmoil that can make her secretly wonder if she is losing her grip on things. And what about intimacy, sex and sensuality? Fun? Have they fizzled out, for good?
It doesn’t have to be this way. Nature is doing her best to speak to you, and I know what she is saying. She has a pantheon of characters waiting to help you and I am one of their messengers.
In Yoga, the presiding Deva of this time is Bagalmukhi.
She holds a noose to call you back inwards to your self and a cosh to stun you into inner silence! The more you struggle to get away from this passage, the tighter her hold becomes. She who holds the chattering tongue of the inner demons, is going to be your archetypal overseer for the next few years. Relax, she means well!
Once you know what she is there for, and how to work with her, you can feel comforted. And when you know how exciting it is to dig deep into your inner world, and recover the gems of your self, you won’t want to skip this part of your life, or numb it out of consciousness, I promise you.
And I also must introduce you to Chiron, who is waiting in the wings until you are around 50 years of age. At this point, The Centaur, will present you with a gateway opportunity to find and release your core soul wounding freeing you up to be more of who you were born to be.
I can take you on this journey- and show you just where you need to shine your awareness so that you can be free of any invisible ‘chains ‘. If you sense that you that you have held back from that certain ‘something’ that is always just calling you, then this is your gateway opportunity to sort it. And I have been trained to connect to Chiron – so this isn’t a shallow promise.
Then there’s the whole technology of the Kundalini (s0metimes called ‘Serpent” energy) and its interaction with your etheric body systems. You need to know how to clear your energy field and your psyche and keep it that way. Grounding methods and the pelvic floor organs are tools you simply have to have while you embody these powerful influxes of energy.
And of course, you’ll want to deal effectively with anger, grief and resentment so you don’t carry old injuries forward into the next phase of life. Natural menopause really demands you clear all that no longer serves you so it doesn’t lurk in the basement of your psyche – and if it does, you know how to clear it out.
Menopause is physical – yes – and it is also a super sensitive time for life change supported by a whole, unspoken of, technology of its own. Am I going to get a mainstream doctor to agree with me? I doubt it. But nevertheless, this ancient understanding and esoteric knowledge still exist – and they are sorely needed by women so they can birth their wisdom and power anew and live life fully again.