Perimenopausal and wondering what the ….. happened to your life?
Dear and beloved sister,
If you’ve taken the time to read this page, congratulations. It’s a smart investment of a few minutes of your precious time.
It is likely you’re suffering from one or more of a huge range of symptoms triggered by the peri menopause stage of your life. You may well be looking for some relief from the madness that doesn’t just depend on guesswork or HRT.
On the other hand, you could be doing OK – but you have this funny, nagging feeling that something much greater than a physical shift is happening to you. You can’t name it, but it’s there. Often!
For 25% of women (and their families and colleagues!) perimenopause can be a very testing – and weird time.
You could well feel horribly exhausted.
Confused and foggy? Stuck and unable to move forward?
You may be acting in what seem like totally unreasonable ways. Perhaps you are secretly feeling very vulnerable – and really really frustrated that your body and your mind are not working like they used to.
Why would this even happen to someone who has always had it together?
My clients tell me they feel as though they just don’t always want to do things the way they always have. That can be sex, intimacy, caregiving, friendships – even career. And this can create huge guilt; anger, resentment and even more confusion.. because they don’t know what they do want to do – or who they want to be. It can be a real spiral of despair and loneliness – amplified by physical symptoms that just drag you down.
Perhaps you can relate?
So HOW would you feel if I told you that you don’t have to struggle? That there is a way though this crazy maze – and that I know how to lead you?
I imagine you’d feel relieved, at least!
As a mid life woman, you probably have another one third of your life ahead. Just think about that. What could you – would you – do with another 20 years – or 30 – IF you really, really could do what you want – what would that look like?
Do you fancy dancing a sensual, steamy Tango in Buenos Aires?
Or building your beautiful dream home – the one you have been carrying in your heart for ever?
Perhaps you long to journey – to cross the deserts and oceans?
Maybe you yearn to cook your favourite food in your favourite country – or immerse yourself in a whole new learning phase?
Do you fancy being fluent another language? Or creating art?
Perhaps your soul longs for more time with your lover/children/grandchildren?
Maybe you’d like to have a lover? Write a mind blowing novel? Help others rebuild their lives?
The ‘third third’ of your life is intended to be a gift to you. I know that in my bones! These are the years for you to live the joy your soul has yet to express – and if you’re not experiencing it now, then perimenopause and I will teach you how.
I work exclusively with women who want to experience even more than they already have done. I will show you exactly how to embody the new ‘archetypal’ you. This is a magic key because when SHE shows up, so does everything else. I promise that the potential is there and I know how to show you how to access it. All you need to do is to be willing, step up and come under my wing for a while! You will soon be flying again.
Let’s talk – don’t think about it, just do it!
What others are saying…
Everyone can listen but most people don’t hear, you do. You’re brave, you’re grounded and you help me put things into perspective. You’re kind, honest, always truthful and always, always supportive, You believe in me, and encourage me even when others won’t. Your zest for life is infectious and I always feel fabulous after I’ve seen you.
You do have a unique ability to get to the core of what’s going on, to understand the complexity in which women find themselves and identify clear, profound and challenging ways for them to take responsibility and make wise decisions.
You spread joy, hope and love everywhere you go. Again a rare talent when it runs side by side with your honesty, insight and commitment to help achieve change; yours is not a ‘love and peace, man’ type of offering, yours is embedded in that truthfulness that spreads joy and love without ignoring the darkness, the negative sides of reality
Your unique ability is to make connections between ideas, people and so on… you help people by seeing patterns in what you are hearing/seeing and reflecting these back … a wonderful atmosphere of warmth and openness which people respond to.
Debs created a magical and unique retreat experience. We slept and ate like queens, danced, walked, learned, cried, laughed and discovered so much about ourselves and how we can flourish in mid life. I can’t recommend it highly enough.