Hello…
If you’re a woman in the corporate world, with 20-ish years of experience, and you’re feeling the nudge to exit, retrain, or stay –
But can’t see how to do that without losing financial security, stability, and sleep, I’m here to help.
- When you face a life-changing decision, you need a system and a process that will lead you to one clear choice – and quickly. Why continue exhaust yourself with loop-based thinking?
- 85% of women do not have any external structural support to make career decisions (Source: Phoenix Insights). You need a process that is robust and tailored to you.
- Statistics show a significant “leaky pipeline” for women in senior UK roles, with representation dropping from 46.9% at entry-level to 34.3% at director level and 25.9% at the C-suite. Staying should be an option as long as it works with you and not against you. I can help.
And yes, you can step out of the fog of uncertainty, exhaustion and upheaval to gain renewed clarity,& increased confidence in your choices and direction.
“I know for sure, there is a way for you, one that truly reflects your unique self, your gifts, and your soul’s essence.” Debs de Vries
- I know how puzzling midlife can be and how frustrating to find yourself asking, “Is this it?”. And no matter how much you “think about it” you still can’t figure it out – because your unique path is not engineered by your mind alone.
- I know! There’s always the nagging voice that says if only you just carry on doing what you are doing for a bit longer and wait….until the money is right, the children have flown, the relationship is easier…I have more time….it will all work out. But the reality is, if you carry on as you are, nothing changes. You’ll just drain even more of your precious life force and short-change your future self. Don’t waste the time, energy, and opportunity that is here and now.
- Hope and waiting are not plans.
Please. If you are feeling lost or uncertain, restless, unfulfilled, guilty or bored, then don’t wait it out. You will end up doubting yourself so much that you will numb out into the twilight zone – that weird space between who you were and who you are destined to become. Don’t do that!
Lady, life is too short to stay swirling around in the “don’t know” zone.
Believe me, right now you don’t need more career advice, a promotion, or another qualification. And you most certainly do NOT need to settle for what is not fulfilling you. That is not what you were born for – and you know it!
At this pivotal time of your life, what you really need is someone in your corner who knows exactly what you need and how to support that growth and change. I offer calm, clear decision support, not pep talks or vision boards.
I support women in unique, practical, and intuitive ways. I help them to move through their toughest transitions, make clear, grounded choices, and make vital changes with calm confidence.
I’m Debs…welcome to my world
Where I mentor, guide, and fast-track spirited, determined women like you to make your one clear decision.
- You need and deserve a guide who knows how to lead you through a process that is designed to take you to a clear decision.
- You need a pragmatic mentor, one with profound and long-standing experience in the world of personal and corporate development, and intuitive guidance
- And a guarantee that if you don’t reach a decision within 30 days, I’ll work with you until you do – or refund half of your fee.
- Saying “yes” to a conversation with me could well be the first step into your next decade. One decision will change your next ten years.
I’m curious. “Yes” to a conversation
Testimonials
We worked with Debs
I decided to work with Debs on a hunch…one of those moments of clarity you can’t quite put your finger on, but know you have to follow. My work with her turned out to be more enriching then I could have predicted. I knew that to tackle some of the goals I had for this next part of my life I needed to tap into a different kind of energy, because what I was running on was depleting me.
Debs helped me find my way back to my source, and to rethink…well everything really. When I consider what has changed since working with her, it is my ability to be with myself, to settle into my bones, into a deep knowing that no matter what direction I choose go I am resourced and ready.
Tracey Grady, WA. U.S.A.
ToniAnn Martin
I was really depressed, anxiety level was very high. Also suffered from other health issues.
I am so grateful that I took a plunge and joined the programme. Debs was so…so supportive through out.
Having wisdom to understand what is going on with our body and mind. Holding my hand when I was really down.
Having a Mentor like Debs gave me encouragement, and the support has helped me understand and able to cope with myself.
Having Debs wisdom and very good skills guiding me through difficulties I was facing at the time.
Debs is so warm hearted and pleasure to work with. Always ready to help in anyway she can.
Passion and love Debs has for the programme is incredible.
Bharti Solanki
‘It has been quite an extraordinary journey working with Debs in the transference healing modality. You won’t come out the same person. It is a journey of faith and fire which will whip you into alignment into becoming the authentic priestess you were meant to be’
Jan Robinson
I chose Debs as my mid-life to menopause mentor because I was feeling a bit lost with what I wanted to do with the rest of my life. I was struggling with dissatisfaction that ‘this was it’ career-wise and in my personal life but I was uncertain about what I really did want to do. By the end of our time together I felt I had really useful tools to help me focus on what I really wanted and I found clarity and a new conviction to follow my own path. I know what I want now and am happily creating a completely new life for myself!
Karen Doubleyew
“… Debs became my perfect guide—she filled all the roles of business coach, therapist, spiritual teacher, friend, creative life mentor, health expert—in the uniqueness of her approach and who she is. I chose to work with her because I could sense that she was able to meet me on all those levels in ways that I didn’t even know I needed. She works with what’s on the surface, but also accesses and tends to what you can’t even name or fully articulate for yourself. Debs helped me to heal old patterns and create a powerful framework and narrative for the transition I’m in. She helped me move into the next phase of my life from a place of deep truth and groundedness”
” Deb’s sharp skill, listening ear, magical witness, and generous heart are a true gift and have been exactly what I needed to cross the threshold and stand firmly in the ground of the second half of my life”.
Samantha Wallen, CA. U.S.A.
“I chose Debs to be my Mid life mentor because I was feeling as though I’d lost myself. I had an amazing, loving husband, two wonderful teenage girls and a small business, great friends and I knew I was blessed. However I somehow felt unfulfilled and felt guilty about it! I realized I had lost my sense of self and was unsure of …as soon as I met Debs, I felt drawn to her unbound positive energy and wisdom… Debs was exactly what I needed.
Debs has this amazing way of leading and teaching that enabled me to be guided and learn the lessons myself rather than being ‘taught’.
By the end of our time together, I felt I had transformed. I have a new sense of self, I have a clear direction for the next phase of my life and am excited and motivated to work hard to achieve it! I have new tools to deal with life’s challenges, calmly, with insight and compassion.
Working with Debs has given me clear vision for all aspects of my life: my sense of self: health, my family, and my business. I will always be truly grateful that I met this wonderful woman and had the courage to go on this learning journey with her. Debs is one of a kind: full of knowledge, and wisdom and an infectious zest for life.
It’s difficult to explain how she does it: you’d have to work with her to see and experience the result. I’d describe her as miraculous!!
Tracy Saqladi
“You do have a unique ability to get to the core of what’s going on, to understand the complexity in which women find themselves and identify clear, profound and challenging ways for them to take responsibility and make wise decisions.”
Annie D
“Everyone can listen but most people don’t hear, you do. You’re brave, you’re grounded and you help me put things into perspective. You’re kind, honest, always truthful and always, always supportive, You believe in me, and encourage me even when others won’t. Your zest for life is infectious and I always feel fabulous after I’ve seen you.”
Annette H
“Self care is non negotiable for me these days. And lots and lots of rest and sleep. I think I mentioned that I was in the process of cutting off from lots of toxic people in my life. That has continued and I am now extra choosy as to who I let it! So excited for this year. Loads of ideas waiting to come into fruition. Love all the work you’re doing and the community you’ve created. So needed!!”